Permanent moods and tearfulness in a child of 5 years

Good day. I do not know where to start, because I ran into a problem when raising my second child. The girl is 5 years old, quite emotional: very active with peers who obey her, but she doesn’t like when there are many children, because she is afraid that they will hit or push her, they will be hurt. Does not love and can not lose, everything should be as she wants. If something goes wrong, a hysterics begins. Now about the main thing. She cries seldom and moderately at home, because most often we make concessions, in kindergarten it’s just a disaster, according to the teachers: they say, remove the child and bring it up at home. A child cries at all occupations: physical education, music, reading, mathematics, modeling, etc., everything that goes in the garden. In this case, it does not calm down. It began three months ago from certain occupations where she did not succeed. Now passed on to everything, even the previously loved ones. When talking at home, her cry explains what is available, for example, she didn’t have enough of a ball or changed a pair in a dance, or missed a page for a class, etc. We tried to talk and express everything with words, but she doesn’t work, because tears are not holding back maybe, and then he hears nothing and just cries. Which specialist to contact and how to help the child?

Hello.

First of all, you need to consult with a neurologist, the child may have increased anxiety as a result of the effects of neuroscience (high sensitivity of the nervous system), hence the possible emotional anxiety, tearfulness. This most often happens in children in spring and autumn.

Secondly, a child may have a delayed crisis of 5 years, it is usually accompanied by unjustified fears, self-doubt, irritability, sudden aggression and hysteria. A child at this age learns to be independent, to control his emotions, wants to be meaningful. Therefore, it is important to him that everything worked out for him. And children often use tears as a weapon against adults, it is also worth paying attention to.

The main thing is for parents to be always close by and learn to bypass all the manipulations and tantrums of the child.

You can also pay attention to the type of temperament, according to your description suitable melancholic type. They are always always whiny, they are afraid of everything, they are constantly in an alarming state. Read the recommendations for this temperament.

And finally, it is necessary to analyze the style of your upbringing and the situation in the family, maybe something has changed lately, children react to everything quickly with their behavior.

You can go to a psychologist for a consultation with your child, the psychologist will help your child to come to a stable emotional state there on the spot with the help of conversation and diagnostics. All the best!

Information provided for reference purposes. Do not self-medicate. At the first symptoms of the disease, consult a doctor.
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