Is it worth helping to resolve conflicts a child of 10 years?

Good day. Strange, in my opinion, the reaction of others to the fact that I want to protect my 10-year-old son from aggression at school, constantly trying to figure everything out, but I don’t see support from parents and teachers. Moreover, they also look at me as an idiot, because I have a boy, he should be able to stand up for himself. But I believe that in 10 years I should not let everything take its course. Help me figure out what I'm doing wrong? Thank you in advance.

Hello. Here it is necessary to understand why it is the attitude of others that has developed such an attitude towards you. Perhaps you care too much for your son and that’s what the teacher wanted to tell you. After all, a child, and especially boys in 10 years already have their own character, personality, their opinions and interests.

Analyze your upbringing style and all the situations that you have cause fears and concerns for the child. See how your boy reacts to your actions, whether he likes such anxiety for him.

Follow these guidelines:

1. Do not take care of the child, try to give him the opportunity to make decisions, consider his opinion.

2. Adhere to the cultivation of tolerance.

3. Try to take an active part in the life of your son, but not together, but nearby!

4. Involve the father in the upbringing of the child.

5. No need to publicly demonstrate your love and care for the child, do it at home, because boys at any age need love.

6. Teach you to solve different situations in conflict-free situations, tell us when it is necessary to use aggression, and when not. Talk with your son as often as possible.

7. Allow the child to learn how to make decisions and understand conflict situations at school and on the street, do not immediately run to school, call the teacher better and ask what happened.

8. Sports not only discipline, but also temper the child, raising a male character in it.

Well, if it will be difficult for you to understand the upbringing of your son by yourself, contact a psychologist at the center, he will conduct a diagnostic examination and help you find the right solution for your family. All the best!

Information provided for reference purposes. Do not self-medicate. At the first symptoms of the disease, consult a doctor.
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